Wednesday, July 31, 2013

Accountants

You probably haven't noticed that I haven't been blogging for a while. I blame school. In one of my last posts I lamented the fact that I didn't go to school "when I was supposed to," or something like that. Going to school as an adult gets in and really ruins your life. No, really.

An example: today I wanted to ride my bike after school. It's a recent activity I've adopted, and I adore it. My knees are bad enough that I can't run anymore, and I really don't like to walk--I want to really move. And while yoga isn't really moving, that and cycling are about all I can do anymore. So, tonight I wanted to ride my bike, and I have chicken in my fridge that needs to be cooked. Soon. I also wanted to go to the temple tonight after work, 'cause I hear they have a new film (a topic for a different post). But HEY, I have HOMEWORK to do.

I finished my capstone last semester to glowing reviews, and boy, what a great way to go out that would have been. But no, I was a dumb-dumb and saved all my favorite subjects for last. (Read: all the subjects that didn't interest me, and frankly, scared me a little bit.)

The subject I'm studying right now is accounting, and I have a whole new respect for accountants. I just don't get it. It doesn't help that I have no real-world experience with accounting, unless you count years ago balancing my checkbook. And I really don't think that counts.

My brother is an accountant, and he's been generous enough to invite me to call him whenever I have a question, so I do. He's a great teacher, but I wish he was closer so I could sit down with him and actually learn from him. It truly is an intro class, and I feel like a glassy-eyed idiot when he explains things to me, especially over the phone.

Oh well. I'm glad to know that not all of us can do everything, and some of us are better doing only one thing.

I did get to spend time with my brother and his family just over a month ago, and his daughters wanted me to do something with them but I told them I had some homework to do. They got quite a charge out of that. They were certain I was pulling their legs.

Monday, January 3, 2011

School, school, school

I highly recommend getting your degree before you have children. I'm thoroughly enjoying my school experience, but hindsight being what it is, I wish I had taken my education seriously 20 years ago.

With that statement out of the way, I am happy to report that I am doing well in school, and may be able to clep out of two or more classes. Yippee! I took the pre-assessments for two classes over the weekend and I'm on track to finish those in a couple of weeks. I'm hoping that I can test out of more, but am trying to be reserved in my optimism.

My mentor is sure that I will be graduating a year ahead of schedule, at any rate. Whew.

Friday, April 23, 2010

No BRCA

My insurance doesn't cover the BRCA testing. Still. After more careful study, my insurance liaison realized she had missed the "exclusion" part. So no testing for me. I'll resume 6-month checkups for the next couple of years.

Monday, April 19, 2010

BRCA1 & 2, part 2

Myriad Genetics claimed my insurance wouldn't cover BRCA testing about 2 months ago, but we have since discovered that with personal and family history, it is indeed covered. I went in today to have the work-up. Basically you swish around mouthwash twice for 30 seconds and spit it all in a vial. I should know in a couple of weeks if I have the BRCA gene mutation that can cause cancer.

If I do, I will consider having a preventive mastectomy and my ovaries removed. I don't know what else to do. I am so appreciative of all your faith and prayers in my behalf, but I'm also really tired of having this hanging over me. Even with a benign biopsy, my doctor wants to see me every six months for a couple of years. MRIs, mammograms, possible biopsies, blah blah blah. It's strange living with a lurker, never knowing when it will show up.

Susan emailed me today and shared what Hunter said after Jesse told his family that my biopsy results were benign. He asked what they should pray for next. And then added that maybe they should thank Him. I smiled the warmest smile when I read that. I love children so much.

If I may digress from the original topic of this post, I have to just say how much I have enjoyed loving and serving the children in our ward. What a wonderful opportunity and calling. It has been amazing, even in the toughest of times. I feel so lucky to be with those great kids each week.

I will post again when I have my BRCA results. Thanks again to all of you for your love and support. I was telling Susan how much I miss my siblings. I am so excited to see you all at the reunion!

Wednesday, March 10, 2010

The letter no one wants to receive


My sister, Susan, once told me that you're terrified with your first baby (giving birth) because you don't know what to expect, and you're terrified with your second because you do. I think that applies equally well here.

Most of you have been informed, and if you're reading this and I hadn't told you, I apologize for the insensitive method of communication.

For those who don't know my history, this is round two. Ding! Not to say I'm pessimistic about the experience, in fact, quite the opposite. Although my experience with cancer the first time, seven years ago, was no picnic, I feel confident that this round (ding!) will be anti-climactic. The problem? Not knowing. I don't want to be blindsided with bad news, but I don't want to over-stress myself, either. Oops. Probably too late on that one.

The update is that I meet with my second surgeon today to set a date for an MRI. I will post more information after that is set. The purpose of the MRI is to determine if there's any "activity" in the areas of concern (about 6 small, fibroid-type masses that were discovered by sonogram, not self-exam or mammo). If so, a biopsy will be ordered. If the biopsy(ies) show any malignancy, it's at that point that all hell will break loose.

Aside from this being a somewhat rambling, insensitive way to announce to everyone who doesn't already know that my left breast needs "further evaluation," I also want it to serve as a thank you. Thank you, to everyone who has already rallied behind me. Thank you for your prayers, your fast, your thoughts, your good wishes, your tears, your strength, your optimism, your love. You truly have been His hands for me.

My prayer is that none of you will have to receive a letter like this in your life, but if you do, know that I will be there to love and support you through it.
Linda

Monday, January 25, 2010

BRCA1, BRCA2

I'm having "female" troubles. Sigh. The joy of being 40, female, and a cancer survivor. No worries, no cancer scares or anything, but as I met with my OB-GYN this week, we determined that we should test for BRCA1&2, the genetic markers for ovarian cancer to determine whether they should come out or not.

It's a much longer and more complicated story than that, but suffice it to say that I'm not having any more children, and at 40, you get tired of being female in some ways. I'm sure the women reading this will know what I mean.

Without going into too much detail, I'm ready to stop being capable of bearing children, and two of the options for that include hormones, which I cannot take. Hence the genetic testing. Having survived cancer, it makes me nervous to be looking for this kind of thing, even though I suspect there's nothing to tell, and even if the markers are there, removing the ovaries would take care of it. Which is actually a good thing, since ovarian cancer does not have a high survival rate.

Not sure why I'm blogging about this, other than it's been on my mind today because I met with my doctor this morning for the tests, and I'm really very bored at work today. I'd like to go home and just go to bed. I'm exhausted.

I'll keep you all posted if there's anything to be done. If not, you won't hear a peep and all is well.

Tuesday, January 19, 2010

I love it when my kids recommend books

Riley recommended "Walk Two Moons" a few years ago, and it is still one of my all-time favorites. It's a Newberry winner, and if you've not had a chance to read it, add it to your list.

Lennon just finished reading "Robin Hood" in his 4th-grade class, and he brought home a copy for me (he got permission from his teacher, don't worry). I promised myself a long time ago that if my children recommended a book, I would read it. No questions. I had to Finish "Life of Pi," but now I am happily engaged in the life of Robin, Little John, Maid Marian, and all the Merry Men. It's admittedly a little youthful, but I like that. And it's so much more detail than any of the films. (OK, I confess, I've only seen the Disney version, but you know what I mean.)

There's a fellow here at my work who has two children in college, one at Brown. One semester he made a committment to read the same books they were reading for their college courses. He was a busy fellow, but he came in with the most fascinating stories. I hope that I can do the same some day. I love to read, and it's even more pleasurable when you can share the experience with your children.

I also believe that my brother has a rule that if his children want to see a movie based on a book, they must first read the book. An excellent idea, and one I will have to implement. Um, if I can get my kids to cooperate this late in the game.

So what kids books have you read because of your children? Have you enjoyed them? do you think it's because the book was genuinely fun/great/worthwhile, or more because your kid asked you to read it? I find that a recommendation by my children carries a lot of weight with me. But maybe that's only because I'm so flattered they would include me.